Question: What am I really afraid of?
Full Question: I am in business with my boyfriend's mother. We love each other very much and it truly is a great working relationship. However, my boyfriend's sister has been asked to handle parts of "MY" business while my business partner is away for 6 months, and I feel hurt that I wasn't asked to do those things. I don't believe it was malicious, but is it because she doesn't believe in me? Or am I just thinking I should handle it all by myself? Part of me says just let them do it, and then I can focus more time on the things I do very well.
Jodi
Answer: Dear Jodi,
While I can see the fear in your energy body that your boyfriend's mother does not trust you enough to handle the business in her absence, this is not the case. Your own feeling of being insecure in your abilities is surfacing, presenting you with a wonderful opportunity to heal.
Your partner, with good intentions, has asked her daughter to step in to help you. I do not feel any lack of trust, or belief that you are not capable. What I do sense is that she feels guilty for leaving you to handle everything alone. She does not want you to shoulder the burden on your own.
What you can do at this time Jodi, is learn to trust that you are respected for your capabilities, and you are in a safe partnership. Trust is something you have had great difficulty with in this life. This is simply another reflection, showing you what you have yet to work through.
Ask yourself these questions:
Many Blessings,
Jaelin
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Disclaimer: Jaelin K. Reece often shares insights derived from intuitive communications. Any advice she offers is not meant to override your personal health providers' recommendations/prescriptions, but is intended to offer a higher perspective on your behalf based on the question you asked of her.
While I can see the fear in your energy body that your boyfriend's mother does not trust you enough to handle the business in her absence, this is not the case. Your own feeling of being insecure in your abilities is surfacing, presenting you with a wonderful opportunity to heal.
Your partner, with good intentions, has asked her daughter to step in to help you. I do not feel any lack of trust, or belief that you are not capable. What I do sense is that she feels guilty for leaving you to handle everything alone. She does not want you to shoulder the burden on your own.
What you can do at this time Jodi, is learn to trust that you are respected for your capabilities, and you are in a safe partnership. Trust is something you have had great difficulty with in this life. This is simply another reflection, showing you what you have yet to work through.
Ask yourself these questions:
- Do I trust my own abilities?
- Am I willing to trust without having to control every situation?
- What am I really afraid of?
Many Blessings,
Jaelin
Free Advice: Ask A Life Coach
Disclaimer: Jaelin K. Reece often shares insights derived from intuitive communications. Any advice she offers is not meant to override your personal health providers' recommendations/prescriptions, but is intended to offer a higher perspective on your behalf based on the question you asked of her.
