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Struggling With Boundary Issues

By , About.com GuideJune 24, 2009

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Free Advice from Intuitive Life Coach, Jaelin K. Reece

Dear Jaelin,

I am dealing with two problems. (1) How can I turn around my issues with money and lack of? (2) I am a healer and am struggling with understanding energetic boundaries. I am also an empath and and have tried every boundary ritual I've ever heard of. I often end up sick, or taking on the traumas or emotions of the one I am healing. Will I ever get this or is healing the wrong work for me?

Cherrie


Dear Cherrie,
It feels to me that your two questions have a common core issue, a lack of being fully grounded in your body. When you are asking the Universe to provide for your physical needs, it can provide only as much as you are embodied within your physical layer.

When you reside in the outer layers of your energy field, and not fully within your inner-most physical layer, you are open to mesh with other people's energies. Energy boundary exercises will not assist you in retaining a level of separation from your clients until you ground yourself fully into your body.

I would suggest focusing your attention on creating a deeper relationship with your body. Practice grounding exercises, such as hugging trees, working to strengthen your root chakra, wearing hematite stones, etc. The more focus you put on embodiment, the greater ease you will have with retaining your energy boundaries. You will also be affirming to the Universe that you are more present, therefore require more to provide for your needs.

Grounding Flower Essences

A blend of flower essences that assist with embodiment (grounding) I have found beneficial are Clematis, Rosemary and Nasturtium.

Blessings!

Jaelin
Whole Life Coach

Disclaimer: Jaelin often shares insights derived from intuitive communications. Any advice she offers is not meant to override your personal health providers' recommendations/prescriptions, but is intended to offer a higher perspective on your behalf based on the question you asked of her.

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