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Vision as a Metaphor
Farsightedness and Astigmatisms

From Martin Brofman, About.com Guest

Farsighted people can direct the energy more inward by giving themselves the same consideration they give others. The idea is not to stop considering others, but also to consider themselves. There can be a conscious process of allowing themselves to receive without guilt - not to take, but to receive - and to express wants and feelings, and let themselves have. When receiving, there need not be the need to reciprocate, or to deny, but just to say, "Thank you," and accept unconditionally. Focus on accepting not only things, but also ideas. Notice any of the ways you have been holding things, ideas, or people away, and allow them to come closer. There can be more a focus on who they really are, in addition to their image. Image is important, but Essence must not be overlooked. Outer appearance is not more important than true sentiment, and people do appreciate honesty in feelings.

Consideration must also extend to yourself. Expressing love need not involve sacrifice. It's not necessary to come out of your space to be loved and respected. The role can be fun, but also remember the Being who is playing it, the person inside. From the farsighted person's point of view, "WE" can include "I" as equal to "YOU," and "I" can be seen as another "YOU," as well as separate and important in its own right.

Astigmatics can ask themselves from time to time, during their day, "What do I really want now? What do I really feel now? What's true for me? What's real for me? If I stop wanting to be what I'm not, who would I be? If I stop living up to other people's standards, who would I be?" If I stop pretending to be the person I've been playing, what would I be doing differently? The feeling may have been that the real person would not be accepted in the environment, by the environment in which the person finds himself or herself. Then, find out whether the feeling is real, by discontinuing the role, and being you. Either you will discover that the feeling was a misperception, and the role was unnecessary, or that the feeling was real, in which case you would then be able to migrate to an environment in which you can be yourself, and be accepted. Either way, the effect would be a greater sense of ease in being you. There's a place in society for all of us, and if we let ourselves be real, there's a place we really fit in, where we are not only accepted, but also appreciated for who we are. We do not have to pretend to not see what's real for us. We can all allow ourselves to be more and more who we really are, to be more and more real. With determination, and a willingness to change perceptions and their accompanying realities, any Being can transform his or her view of the world, both literally and figuratively, and return to a natural state of clarity of vision.

InSIGHTful Affirmations

  1. My vision is improving now.
  2. I choose clarity.
  3. I know what clarity is, and I experience it more and more each day.
  4. I remember clarity, and I am returning to clarity.
  5. I notice that I see more clearly every day.
  6. I know I can see clearly now.
  7. I know that my experiences lead me to clear vision.
  8. I accept new ways of thinking and seeing which are clearer for me.
  9. Acceptance and love lead to clarity.
  10. I accept what I see, and I see more clearly.
  11. It's easier and easier to see clearly.
  12. I'm letting myself be real, and watching my vision clear.
  13. It's more and more comfortable to be myself, and see clearly.
  14. My mind is reaching out and bringing to my awareness any information I need to experience clear vision.
  15. I can have clear vision today. I can see clearly today.
  16. Every day, in every way, I'm getting better and better.
  17. I see more clearly when I'm relaxed and centered.
  18. I see clearly when I am here now.
  19. Clarity exists here and now.
  20. Clarity is my natural state.
  21. Clarity is what is true for me.
  22. I enjoy seeing clearly.
  23. I see that everything is working perfectly.
  24. I love when I see clearly.
  25. Clarity is freedom, and being real.
  26. I see more clearly now.
  27. I see more clearly than I did before.
  28. Today I choose to see the love.
  29. When I do what I really want to do, something wonderful always happens.
  30. I trust being real, and I see clearly.
  31. I see clarity coming.
  32. I can notice clear vision today.
  33. As I clear my life, my vision clears.
  34. My vision is clearing now.
  35. I am free!
  36. My vision continues to clear as I adjust to my new state of consciousness.
  37. Instead of problems, I see solutions. I see the way things can work.
  38. Clearing my vision is easier than I thought.
  39. I know I can see clearly without eyeglasses.
  40. I agree with these statements.
  41. Affirmations always work!
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