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Will my health be a problem in attracting a man and having a great relationship?

From Christopher Stewart, Medical Intuitive, for About.com

Christopher Stewart, Medical Intuitive

Christopher Stewart, Medical Intuitive

Question: Will my health be a problem in attracting a man and having a great relationship?

I have CFS. I am afraid I do not have the energy it takes to be in a good relationship with a man. Will my health be a problem in attracting a man and having a great relationship?

Answer: Chronic Fatigue Syndrome does have a lot of fears associated with it. In your question you state that you do not have the energy for a good relationship. Do you see how you are letting a fear tell your body what will work for it?

In your energy body the central area of your feelings and emotions is located about 2 inches below your navel. It is called the second chakra. This area of your energy body is also associated with your lower GI system and pancreas. Your second chakra is where we store energetically the emotional experiences of our lives.

With CFS there is a real imbalance between in the physical and emotional layers of the human energy system. Your second chakra is the energetic site of origin for your CFS. In looking into your relationship questions, I see you holding back in the belief that there is no real love that will be returned and that you will be starved emotionally.

CFS symptoms are located in the 5th chakra which is in your neck area. The 5th chakra is associated with the Thyroid gland, your teeth and gums, and the autonomic nervous system. It is also the center for all communications verbal or nonverbal. It is where your ability to communicate who you really are is located.

In a relationship your fears of "not having the energy" meet the fears of being starved emotionally, and mix with the memories of relationships that did not feed you, and that you gave so much more that you received. This mix helps to create the thought pattern of being "so sick and tired in a relationship" that your body matches those thoughts.

This is not to say that CFS is only a psychosomatic problem, it is a definite illness, one that has many interweaving emotional components.

In clearing the beliefs and fears around relationship, this will allow your real resonance to be seen, felt, and heard. Which will lead to the real intimacy of a relationship.
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