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Always Falling for the Wrong Guy

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Reader Question: I always seem to fall for the wrong type of guy. What am I doing wrong?

Jaelin's Response: It is not a matter of doing something right or wrong, it is a matter of recognizing the pattern that you are following. Sit down a make a list of all the qualities that these men possess. See a general theme emerging, and then look within to see what you need to heal in yourself. What were they like emotionally, what attracted you to them? For example, if you are always choosing men that cheat on you, what belief do you hold within yourself about men not being trustworthy and able to commit? Is there some part of you that is unwilling to commit? These are the types of questions to ask yourself.

Whole life coaching focuses on your entirety as human being. We have physical, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects that make up our whole being. These aspects are interdependent and require harmony. If you are attracted to imbalanced men, then look into the mirror to see that you are holding imbalance within your being. It may be a belief that you are not worthy of love and care, or that your needs do not matter as a priority. We can only experience what we can receive in a relationship.

Jaelin K Reece,
Life Coach

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Disclaimer: Jaelin K. Reece often shares insights derived from intuitive communications. Any advice she offers is not meant to override your personal health providers' recommendations/prescriptions, but is intended to offer a higher perspective on your behalf based on the question you asked of her.


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