Question: Why do I keep attracting abusive relationships?
After getting out of a 22 year relationship with an abusive man, 10 years ago, I have felt as though my life truly began when my marriage ended. While I have learned and grown so much in the last ten years, I feel this block inside me that prevents me from finding and attaining what I want in life. I'm holding myself back. How do I unblock that part of myself that prevents me from finding the type of relationship that is loving, respectful and supportive? The same type of man keeps showing up in my life and I now realize, it's me doing the attracting and bringing into my life. Help!
Wanda, age 49
Wanda, age 49
Answer: Dear Wanda,
I feel the pain in your heart space. While you consciously want to have a loving warm relationship with someone who respects you and treats you like the beautiful woman you are, your unconscious beliefs are holding the pain.
I would suggest that you take steps to clear your heart chakra, so that the feelings can flow once again. You can begin by using flower essences that will shift the energetic vibration of your heart space. I recommend the Bach flower remedy Holly. This can be purchased at your local health food store.
I suggest using 2 drops in a water bottle and drinking it throughout the day. Each time you finish the bottle, fill it up again with 2 more drops. Over a period of several weeks, you will notice subtle changes, more emotions flowing, sadness and pain releasing. Once the release has happened you will feel so much lighter. Your energy field will be more open, available and lighter. In turn, you will attract men who resonate with the lighter energy.
In addition to the essence, you may want to work with an energy practitioner, such as a Polarity therapist or Reikipractitioner. They will help you opening the heart chakra and clearing the pain.
A lighter you will attract a 'lighter' mate.
Many Blessings,
Jaelin
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Disclaimer: Jaelin K. Reece often shares insights derived from intuitive communications. Any advice she offers is not meant to override your personal health providers' recommendations/prescriptions, but is intended to offer a higher perspective on your behalf based on the question you asked of her.
I feel the pain in your heart space. While you consciously want to have a loving warm relationship with someone who respects you and treats you like the beautiful woman you are, your unconscious beliefs are holding the pain.
I would suggest that you take steps to clear your heart chakra, so that the feelings can flow once again. You can begin by using flower essences that will shift the energetic vibration of your heart space. I recommend the Bach flower remedy Holly. This can be purchased at your local health food store.
I suggest using 2 drops in a water bottle and drinking it throughout the day. Each time you finish the bottle, fill it up again with 2 more drops. Over a period of several weeks, you will notice subtle changes, more emotions flowing, sadness and pain releasing. Once the release has happened you will feel so much lighter. Your energy field will be more open, available and lighter. In turn, you will attract men who resonate with the lighter energy.
In addition to the essence, you may want to work with an energy practitioner, such as a Polarity therapist or Reikipractitioner. They will help you opening the heart chakra and clearing the pain.
A lighter you will attract a 'lighter' mate.
Many Blessings,
Jaelin
Free Advice: Ask A Life Coach
Disclaimer: Jaelin K. Reece often shares insights derived from intuitive communications. Any advice she offers is not meant to override your personal health providers' recommendations/prescriptions, but is intended to offer a higher perspective on your behalf based on the question you asked of her.
