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| boobear | i have a really weird dream i need to ask about if I can |
| TheDreamDoctor | We are waiting with bated breath, Boobear |
| boobear | I keep dreaming about walking in on my husband with other men it really scares me in my dream and I will wake up crying my eyes out what could be causing this |
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| lila | yes dreamdoctor - often times they are struggling with a problem - but nothing life threatening |
| TheDreamDoctor | Boobear. Can you give us some background on your relationship? Why do you think you have this dream? |
| boobear | we have been married almost 2 years and have a 15month old son I don't know what could be causing this we have a great relationship and I have always trusted him he has never giving me A reason not too |
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| lila | I'd like to have you describe the paralysis dreaming - when there is a pause |
| TheDreamDoctor | Infidelity dreams often reflect feelings of unattractiveness in ourselves rather than suggest specific problems with infidelity in our mates. Infidelity dreams also are common after giving birth for the first time, when we are worried about our changing body shape, and our sex appeal, now that we have moved from "lover" to mother. The fact that you find him with other men, however, in interesting. Has it ever crossed your mind that your husband might be bisexual? |
| lila | no pun intended - pause=paralysis.... lol |
| Lydea | very good lila |
| Stones77 | lol |
| boobear | I did think he was gay when I first met him but after i got to know i I knew he wasn't |
| TheDreamDoctor | Any other women have infidelity dreams - either of themselves with other partners or their partners with others? |
| Lydea | yep I have had them |
| panda | I have also |
| Rainbow7 | dd what about having sex with some one unknown |
| vee | I'll fess up - me too |
| kiszingafool | me too |
| kasprrr | yes, that other women were trying to get his attention |
| panda | but it was me with a unknown woman |
| Rainbow7 | men call them wet dreams but women seldom mention it |
| TheDreamDoctor | In that case, boobear, I suggest that you may be concerned about your own attractiveness now. This may also be caused by a change in the frequency of your sexual intercourse. That stuff weighs on the back of our minds...If we used to have sex 4 times a week, but now it is once a week, we wonder where the other three times a week are being fulfilled. |
| Lydea | wow.........4 times a week??? WOW!!! |
| TheDreamDoctor | lol |
| lila | Lydea... behave yourself.... lol |
| Stones77 | lol |
| Rainbow7 | that in one's younger days DD |
| vee | speak for yourself |
| kiszingafool | miss those days |
| Rainbow7 | days of the past |
| vee | they can be recreated with a little bit of thought and planning |
| TheDreamDoctor | They always are disturbing dreams. In the case of dreaming of your partner being flirted with, you may actually have noticed some women competing for his attention, and that will register on your mind |
| lila | when I was single - if it weren't for my sex dreams sometimes I'd have had no sex life at all |
| vee | and this is from some one just turned 53 and married 34 yrs |
| TheDreamDoctor | The unknown stranger usually is a desire for sex with someone new - and a sign that it's time to start telling your partner what you want. |
| boobear | should i tell him about the dreams or not ? every time I wake up crying he wants to know whats wrong and I just tell him it was a bad dream and I don't want to talk about it |
| kiszingafool | lol lila |
| TheDreamDoctor | Have any of you ever heard of virgin night? |
| Lydea | NOOOO tell me more |
| panda | no |
| kasprrr | no |
| lila | virgin night? |
| bkay | no |
| boobear | no |
| Rainbow7 | all ears |
| kiszingafool | ears |
| vee | yeah spill the beans |
| Lydea | running for paper and pen |
| TheDreamDoctor | It's a game you play with your partner, where, on a specified night, you each get to try something you've never done before |
| boobear | we have done that but didn't know it was called that |
| Rainbow7 | and |
| boobear | it can really spice things up |
| TheDreamDoctor | It's a way to listen to what each other wants and needs in a relationship, and it works to help keep things awake between you and your mate. |
| lila | oh... that is called Scrabble night at our house - invent a new word for the board - but its no board game |
| TheDreamDoctor | lol!! |
| Lydea | lol |
| Rainbow7 | i like to be wine and dine |
| Lydea | I like to whine |
| TheDreamDoctor | I receive lots of mail from people who wish they could communicate their desires better with their partners, or who worry about losing the excitement - so I thought I would pass that along.. |
| Rainbow7 | lol |
| lila | lol@Lydea |
| kiszingafool | me too...my leg hurts, worked too long...whine, whine , whine |
| bkay | thanks* for sharing.... |
| TheDreamDoctor | Who wrote about waking up crying and not tellingtheir husband? |
| Lydea | ty's for sharing |
| boobear | i did |
| lila | ty DreamDoctor - that's worth sharing.... |
| Rainbow7 | i have a good relationship lived with him 27 yrs before i decide to marry him |
| boobear | I asked if i sould tell him about the dream or not |
| TheDreamDoctor | What is the dream you have - that you don't tell? |
| boobear | the one of him having sex with other men |
| lila | when I share my dreams with my husband - he gets bored, cause he says they are longer than books with so much detail..lol...I can't hold his attention that long |
| Lydea | lol..........my hubby says that too |
| kasprrr | mine too...he stopped asking |
| vee | mine has better dreams than me |
| TheDreamDoctor | I'm not sure if I would tell that to my wife, either. That sounds more like a personal issue. Often times I think it is best not to burden a partner in a relationship with stuff that really is our own fear or insecurity. It's a judgement call, but I don't think it is bad or wrong that you choose to keep it to yourself. I do believe that you want to understand it. has your sex life changed since the baby? |
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| boobear | he wants to know what kind of dream could get me so upset but how do you tell you husband that you are dreaming of him sleeping with men |
| lila | oh no - we lost our guest..... hopefully he will find his way back in |
| Stones77 | who poofed the dream doctor? lol |
| kiszingafool | DD was punted |
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| Stones77 | wb |
| lila | welcome back |
| Rainbow7 | i guess thats where the dream journal comes in handy hopefully the pages will listen |
| kiszingafool | shhhs he's back |
| kasprrr | wb |
| boobear | yes some we just cant do it as much now that we have the baby |
| TheDreamDoctor | Did I miss boobear's answer?? |
| kiszingafool | nope |
| boobear | but that is as much my fault.. I'm too tired to do it all the time |
| lila | boobear still has a sex life with her husband, but not as often because of the baby |
| TheDreamDoctor | Hi Boobear - I was logged off. If your sex life has changed or if it seems he is not as interested, I suggest that this may be the cause of your dreams, attached to old fears or worries in your mind that he might be gay. The way to fix the dreams, as we were saying, is to figure out a non-threatening way to spark up and spice up your love life. gently gently... People are touchy about sex! |
| boobear | we still have sex about 3 times a week |
| Rainbow7 | omg what are you worried about |
| TheDreamDoctor | Girls?? |
| Lydea | wow |
| TheDreamDoctor | See boobear - everyone thinks you're doing great! |
| boobear | thank you for all your help i thought maybe i was going crazy |
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| Stones77 | maybe she/he had a high sex drive before the baby, and now they do not? |
| TheDreamDoctor | And again, the dream most likely is tied to your own feelings or worries. You write that the reason you are not having sex as much is because you are too tired.Then naturally your mind fears that if you don't give him the sex, that he will have it with someone else.. |
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