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lila

would you say that most of our images are from childhood.......?

Lydea

images can be from childhood, most originate there, but also past-life too sometimes.My main image, the generational image that my family deals with

Wendy

I would... but life would add to it

Lydea

Life is Pain!

mamb

Do you really think so Lydea?

Lydea

remember mamb this is my image, doesn't mean it's truth, just something I've taken on in this lifetime and many others

Aureila

What about our images about men... most of us had rather negative responses there.

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Lydea

yes I noticed that Aurelia

Lydea

so this is a good one to explore further Aurelia

OldTree

some men are nobel but all have flaws

Lydea

let's do another exercies around that one

Aurelia

how do we start?

Lydea

write down the following statement and fill in the blanks

Sandcastle

actually, I was only considering my husband at that time

Lydea

Since men are..................................., then I need to be/act...............................

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Aurelia

agressive... smarter

Lydea

ahhhh what a great start Aurelia

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mamb

here....understanding/helpful

OldTree

learning......forgiving.....

lila

women have flaws to OldTree - both sexes are human

Wench

hunters....strong

Sandcastle

men assertive

Sandcastle

oh definitely lila

Lydea

yes Olt Tree and Quinn, the images might be more fun to do the same statement and substitute the word women

Quinn

more understanding, compassionate and loving ,,,,,, and communicate it

OldTree

ty Quinn...

whorsew

supportive, willing to be supported

Aurelia

I like that one

Lydea

okay for those of you who have a strong positive image around these statements great, your work is done, and for the rest of us, ohhhhhh dear

mamb

thank god!

Lydea

now is the time we put on our Indiana Jones hat and go exploring. How do we create these beliefs in our lives

OldTree

experiance...

mamb

A lot are given to us

Lydea

how do we always seem to work around, attract, hang out with the exact personality types we just mentioned. See how many times in this next week or two that your images are confirmed in your life and see how it creates the viscious circle

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Aurelia

so how do we change our images if they don't serve us

OldTree

how can we break it? Lydea?

mamb

Intent...known or not

Lydea

ohhhh getting ahead of me folks hang on now

Stones77HOST

eager beavers here. lol

Wendy

lol

Lydea

first of all we need to recognize that the images are being played out right in front of our very eyes

Aurelia

grin

Lydea

it's like there is this speck of dust in our eyes and we want to keep washing our ears

OldTree

good one Lydea.....

Lydea

we need to just allow this image to unfold in all it's glory right in front of us, be conscious of how it reinforces our negative beliefs and keeps us stuck