How to Manifest A Mate
Difficulty: Hard
Time Required: 1 month to a lifetime
Here's How:
- Self evaluation. Where are you at in your life at the moment? How did you get here. Are you happy? Are you sad?
- Evaluate your past relationships. What aspects in those individuals made you happiest? What aspects were not so great? Are you ready for a new relationship and all that it involves?
- Explore your personal reasons for wanting to manifest a mate. Are you lonely? Are you seeking financial freedom? Are you in need of emotional support? No reason is wrong, it's helpful to know where you are coming from to better understand your needs.
- Understand this universal law - Ask and you shall receive as long as you are not infringing upon another person's free will. This means focusing on any particular person to be your perfect mate is non productive. Turn your focus toward your "ideal personality."
- Consider all the various traits you are seeking in a person (kindness, generosity, wealth, honesty...etc.). Do you have these same traits? Like attracts like. When we portray the images that we wish to attract in ourselves we naturally magnetize people with these same traits toward us.
- Write out your desires on paper. This exercise is no different than selecting the specs for your new automobile. Pick and choose the characteristics you like; height, weight, color of eyes, hair, etc....
- If you aren't particular about physical appearances then leave that door open. Just remember, any doors left open are an invitation to chance. How adventuresome are you? Are you wanting to be married? Or are you are just seeking a friend to date without strings attached? You'll get the idea. Being specific clears up the murky images, the details are important.
- Dedicate your "manifest list" with an affirmation or prayer asking for it to be fulfilled with the aid of the universe.
- Allow it to cook and simmer. The universe has now received your request and it is left to you to trust that everything will work out perfectly. Doubting this will be giving the universe conflicting messages that say you aren't ready to have your life's desires fulfilled. Doubtful thinking will only create road blocks along the path to finding your perfect mate.
Tips:
- Be careful what you ask for because you'll get it!
