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Free Advice from Intuitive Life Coach, Jaelin K. Reece
Dear Jaelin,
My husband seems distracted most of the time I'm with him. He says he loves me and I do him. I feel I do all the emotional work. Is there anything I can do to bring equality into our lives? Can he give more?
Thank you,
Joan
Dear Joan,
I would actually suggest you give less. If you are doing all the emotional work, what is left for him to do to participate with? Start with pulling your energy in, containing yourself more. To help you with this, I would suggest you go to a good energywork practitioner, such as Reiki or Polarity Therapy.David De Lossy / Getty Images
Free Advice from Intuitive Life Coach, Jaelin K. Reece
Dear Jaelin,My husband seems distracted most of the time I'm with him. He says he loves me and I do him. I feel I do all the emotional work. Is there anything I can do to bring equality into our lives? Can he give more?
Thank you,
Joan
Dear Joan,
I would actually suggest you give less. If you are doing all the emotional work, what is left for him to do to participate with? Start with pulling your energy in, containing yourself more. To help you with this, I would suggest you go to a good energywork practitioner, such as Reiki or Polarity Therapy.
Once you are containing your energy body more fully, you will not feel so drained, overworked, and responsible for the relationship. In response, your husband will notice your containment and actually begin to be more involved and want to participate. He needs to 'miss you.'
Many Blessings,
Jaelin
Whole Life Coach
Disclaimer: Jaelin often shares insights derived from intuitive communications. Any advice she offers is not meant to override your personal health providers' recommendations/prescriptions, but is intended to offer a higher perspective on your behalf based on the question you asked of her.
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Giving less is never a good spiritual answer in my opinion. We came to this life with an abundance of light to share, but we must always share unconditionally with no agenda. Continue sharing with your husband but unconditionally. Then seek counsel of a spiritual advisor to seek the root cause of your lack of communication.