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By Phylameana lila Desy, About.com Guide to Holistic Healing since 1997

The Secret: The Importance of Feeling Good

Monday January 8, 2007
Affirmative Project: Day 8

The Importance of Feeling Good

If you watched The Secret you probably remember the sequence in the movie when it was demonstrated how bad things can spiral. A woman wakes up in the morning, gets out of bed and throughout the day one thing wrong happens after another. We've all experienced a day when nothing seems to go right. You wonder why you even bothered to get out of bed.

According to the Law of Attraction, if we allow a bad mood to persist it will attract more of the same, and that's how a bad start of a day progresses into one crazy bad day.

Today could have been one of those days for me, if I had allowed it. Early in the day I was confronted with some criticism. Let me tell you right now, I don't take criticism very well. I don't even understand why people feel the need to criticize another person. It put me in a sour mood... for about five minutes. I was bummed, but I eventually let it go. I immediately got on the phone to tell a supportive friend of mine what was said. I knew she would be in my corner. I was able to vent for a couple of minutes, then I felt better... and let it go. I am Grateful for my friends! The rest of my day went pretty well.

By the time my husband came home in the evening I had almost forgotten about it. But when I did tell him he voiced anger about it. His reaction was really funny and nice, it boosted my self esteem. I was surprised that he seemed to be more upset about it than I had been initially. And although I had already LET IT GO, it felt good to have a husband, My Knight in Shining Armour, be willing to speak out in my defense. Even if it was temporary --- he let his anger go too!

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What is the Affirmative Project?
Daily journal postings beginning January 1 focusing on my New Year's resolution "I resolve to live in a more affirmative light in the coming year."

Affirmative Project Journal Entries

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Comments
January 9, 2007 at 6:21 pm
(1) Joaquim Mutim says:

Hello :)
Very nice post!!
I already watch to the secret about 5 times and I really love this movie and I will write about it soon on my blog also.
I’m using law of atraction since when I was a child without being aware of it and about 2 years using it being aware.

hugs from brazil
peace

January 10, 2007 at 11:23 am
(2) Phylameana says:

Hi Joaquim,

When you write about the LOA on your blog, please consider submitting it to Ed Miller’s Law of Attraction Carnival. I’m going to be hosting it this month on January 23rd.

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